Showing posts with label tough love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tough love. Show all posts

Saturday, July 21, 2012

What to do About Contractions

Can you make yourself ready to ascend? Yes, and it doesn't need to take another lifetime. All it requires is the decision that nothing you have lived through is negative. It may appear negative, and made you decide against another drama like it, but what was experienced gave you an opportunity to become more aware and more compassionate. All experiences do this, not by the experience alone, but as a method of causing you to go within to discover who you really are.

Are you the drama's cause or at its effect? Owning both makes your negativity disappear. You agreed to all of those negative details to grow by. Instead of draining the light of your most cherished memories, you can make those memories a current source of more light. Instead of reminiscing with negative, anxiety filled thoughts, instead, meditate and care about those needing your caring. Instead of collecting collaborative data against most of the lesson givers in your life, you can decide to free them from your negative cording and give them no more attention. Can you do this? This will clear contractions. Resolving all draining anger and creating new attitudes about conditions that are no longer on the current day's event schedule can and will make you more conscious and more desirable to be around. Can you ascend? Not quite.

When you have changed your negativity into not caring about the "others" who clouded your heart and mind, the next step is to delete those clouds also. Negativity against anything or anyone contains clouds that dim your light. Solve this and ascension can gain another member. Make this your active desire, not getting even or destroying the life of the one you cannot forgive.

Forgiveness assumes there is a creator of the circumstances that arranged the details to give you a most important growth opportunity. Can you accept this as more important than what was done to you? I'm including all those unloving acts of destruction that caused mental and physical trauma. What appears negative here caused the victim to create an attitude and anger to be transcended for a level of growth that would not otherwise be possible. Forgiveness and contractions are not mutually exclusive—you need both to get to an open heart. When you contract your heart closes and none of your dreams are about caring—only destruction. When you forgive, the heart opens and the most beautiful growth occurs.

What is your most heartbreaking memory? This is where you are most contracted and it contains many of the details being brought up again and again by your mind. Give away the charge of that memory and give away the contraction. Neutralize all the reactivity in your mind's dialog mechanism and become free of loneliness, distrust and derogatory mind choices. No more destructive attitudes and you cancel all causes that negate ascension. When you assume these will automatically disappear, this is not a correct assumption. These attitudes will continue to drain your light and keep you from ascending, unless you shift your point of view.

Being a good, caring person is not enough. You will remain in a contracted condition if you are negative about anyone who could assist but doesn't, or anyone that acts differently than you want them to, or anyone who comes by occasionally but does nothing to contribute. All of these negative thoughts cause you to contract. Put aside your contractions with caring about what has contributed to your awareness. All who did major cancellations to your light were loving beings fulfilling the life design you agreed to. They are not as they appeared in your drama. They are your next doorway to awakened awareness—when you can give forth love to them. Be the gift to them that they were to you when they delivered their tough love.

When you can delete your "against thoughts," ascension is no big deal. It is the natural next step; be truly alive in this life, then ascend. It is your chosen destiny.

I AM THAT I AM
Ascended Master Saint Germain
Channeled by Aruna

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Advance Awareness with Caring

Ascension has created many ascended masters in man's midst, yet all are not able to grasp the full clarity of their new condition yet. Many are unaware that they have fully ascended negativity. Are masters negative? Never. I Am That I Am considers everything unattractive to be an opportunity for expanding awareness. Are you able to make this an absolute truth in your awareness?

Non-awareness can still need an answer of this kind to become fully anchored in the newly ascended. Changes in your way of thinking may alternate between two different attitudes as this adjustment continues to completion. Change to the mental, as well as the body's chemistry, needs time to be adequately advanced into 5th dimension. This change is natural, no abilities are needed. Complete acceptance deletes any adjustment dynamics.

Facing what occurs without making any demands or holding any negative attitudes is the most conscious way to act as controller activities are being directed at you now. Staying with your own close group and doing non-divisive meditations and clearing work for all concerned will aid in dissolving the negativity in mass consciousness.

Facing the controllers can lead them out of darkness as the next great movement in consciousness occurs, but not now. First, they need an outpouring of energy that delights them into thinking they are delivering more of their goals. Next, the Galactic Federation will defuse all of their attempts to drive the cost of fuel up and the cost of a meal over what anyone can easily afford. Your answer to most of their attempts to destroy can be "I'm doing this my way!" Not calling them on their deceptions now is the difference between ascended consciousness and collective disturbance. Ascended consciousness awaits the attack without making any discernable effort to mount a defense. As the attack comes, an answer comes to thwart it. Our answer is not needed until there's an attack. Waiting without concern is how man can defeat the controllers. He can call these changes unacceptable and not go along with them. We are not advising any attack before the challenge appears. Not now or ever.

Tough love does not act against a minority cause unless it deems that an action being taken is not acceptable. Canceling your account at the bank is not the way to begin. When the tightening of credit comes, get out then. Always demonstrate a response that emphasizes how the control move is what caused that response. Once this type of counter to every move convinces the decision makers that they cannot succeed, no more attacks of this kind will be delivered.

Cash will not be made defunct as the controllers do not intend to delete theirs, but it will become more difficult to obtain. Create a group mind to discuss how to manage with less. Many of you are not close to anyone near where you are living. Can this be changed? Collective dialog can inspire creative solutions. Many of the newly ascended masters can give instant answers to local conditions. In their groups there will be love and decision making that can change all of the controllers attempts to destroy. None of them will be announcing their new awareness, so find them by going out to meet your neighbors. They might be next door. Nice neighbors can be ascended masters. When the day comes to come together, the neighbors may not contact you unless they are aware of your kind attitude towards them.

Faith in the power of the collective mind is more needed now than ever before. Give this day a new dose of happiness.

I AM THAT I AM
Ascended Master Saint Germain
Channeled by Aruna